Defenders of Marriage

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I just finished reading the entire report on the Supreme Court's decision to force all states, whether they initially approved it or not, the ability for same sex couples to apply for marriage certificates. It was lengthy but after much thought clearly represents the feelings of the majority of the people these days.

Not all of the judges agreed with the majority ruling. There were four judges that dissented and they had really good arguments to defend their sides. Some of favorite quotes were the following:

“If the Constitution contained a provision guaranteeing the right to marry a person of the same sex, it would be our duty to enforce that right. But the Constitution simply does not speak to the issue of same-sex marriage.  In our system of government, ultimate sovereignty rests with the people, and the people have the right to control their own destiny. Any change on a question so fundamental should be made by the people through their elected officials” (Judge Alito’s dissent, page 6)

“The Court’s decision here will “have unavoidable and wide-ranging implications for religious liberty”. . . It appears all but inevitable that the two will come into conflict, particularly as individuals and churches are confronted with demands to participate in and endorse civil marriages between same-sex couples.” (Judge Thomas’ dissent, page 15)

“There will be consequences to shutting down the political process on an issue of such profound public significance.  Closing debate tends to close minds.” (Judge Roberts dissent, page 27)1

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The legalization of same-sex marriages is a direct attack on the sacredness of marriage between a man and a woman as well as its divine characteristic given to us by God. In the eyes of God, there is good and bad, black and white. This ruling shows that people can live in the ‘grey’ area without any repercussion or consequence to follow. This reminds me of the scripture that says you can’t serve two masters. The people who are for same-sex marriage are foolishly thinking that they can live their lives “however they want to” without offending their Creator. It is just not possible!

Now some people might say that I’m so one sided because I do not have anybody that I love that is not suffering with same sex attraction. As a matter of fact, I do. However, I do not think that there is anything good that comes out of direct debates and confrontations regarding our differing views.

I believe that "to love and stand your ground" means to pick your battles. What I mean is that we cannot go on shouting out our "opinions" and beliefs without offending anyone. That is just not possible. So we don't go on every post on social media or any platforms like that, and always be on an attack mode. We need to seek the guidance of the Spirit as to when to speak and when to just let things be said without commenting on them.

I also feel like as a member of His true church, I need to decide now. . . Would I let this go on without having a conviction (pro or con) or should I, at least in my heart, decide where I stand on the issue? It reminds me of the counsel that they always say to the youth regarding choices. You have to make the decision now so that when you are faced with that challenge, you've already made a choice. I am not mad at anybody in particular that is pro same sex marriage. My biggest issue is having that lifestyle forced on me, just because nine judges say so.

I honestly am not sure if I’m prepared for the tough times ahead of us (as far as the disintegration of society and family values) but I do believe that I have a strong enough testimony to keep my faith in these increasingly challenging times. Over the years I have realized that for me to that, I have to make my “circle” of friends smaller. This doesn’t mean that I’m not friendly or have this snobbish attitude. I am just now in the position where I want to be surrounded, especially for my children’s sake, by like-minded people. Yes we can have some differences but I do not go out of my way to be friends with those that have opposing standards and morals than mine. It is just too hard, especially when a lot of them are so close minded now. It’s either you accept them for all that they are or that they perceive that you hate them. There’s no middle ground for certain groups of people.

Resources:
1. http://www.supremecourt.gov/opinions/14pdf/14-556_3204.pdf